Resilience or Stubbornness

Written By The Visual Brand

They look the same from the outside. Someone refusing to quit. The difference is on the inside, and it matters.

Resilience adapts. It keeps the goal and changes the route. When the wall doesn't move, resilience looks for the door. It absorbs the hit, learns from it, and keeps going in a smarter shape.

Stubbornness just repeats. Same approach, harder. It mistakes effort for progress and pride for principle. Stubbornness will run you straight into the same wall a hundred times and call it grit.

I've been both, and I can't always tell in the moment which one I'm running on. So I ask a question. Is this working? Not is it hard, not am I committed, but is it actually moving? If the answer is no and I keep doing it anyway, that's not resilience. That's ego wearing a costume.

Resilience listens to reality. Stubbornness argues with it. The strong move is usually the one that requires admitting the old way isn't working and trying something else. That takes more spine than just gritting your teeth.

The Visual Brand

The Visual Brand (TVB) is a Metro New York based brand innovation studio, the second generation of a successful NYC based studio founded by branding veteran Randy Herbertson. TVB works with leading and emerging local, national and international brands and companies in well-established practice areas including insight development and brand and messaging foundation, and full service design from packaging, motion design, industrial and environmental design to print, video/tv and digital. Grown in the digital era, TVB leverages and builds on leading edge technology across its practice areas. TVB has a multinational presence and native bi-lingual capabilities with a close partnership in Latin America.

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